Love is beautiful. Love is immortal and you know it very well. It has been more than a year you have lost your husband, but still, sometimes you experience his presence. Still, sometimes you believe that he is alive. But the next moment, reality strikes in your face and you once again begin to feel sad, alone and incomplete. However, you can smile again; you may once again like to be in the company of a special person, once again you can feel that your life is beautiful and complete. This is the immortality of love. Do you remember when and how you fall in love of your late husband? It just happened and it can happen again.
You may find someone who knows your pain, who feel what feel, who has gone through what you have gone through. Someone who cares about you and wants to help you in moving on in life after loss of your husband. Life without spouse can be beautiful again. Dating after loss, especially someone who has lost his wife can give a new meaning to your life. 
How to Date a Widower?
Take Some Time
Widowers are not of those who want to spend some time. They seek companionship. They want to experience the normalcy of life again. Take things slow during the first two or three months of the relationship. He may tell you that he wants to start a new life with you, but wait and see if he is truly ready or not.
Let Him Lead
Resist your feeling of having control of everything in the relationship. Let him initiate and lead. You should not make all relationship plans on your own. It is a relationship. If he is really interested in making long-term commitments, he will initiate, he will lead and plan.
His Grief Is Different
You both have lost your spouses. You have gone through the same pain, but the grief is different. Every individual have a different way to overcome the pain. Understand that his grief is different from yours. He may overcome the grief in a few months or he may need a year.
There are several online magazines like Pathfinder , books like Abel Keogh’s “Dating a widower” that can be pretty helpful for you.
Best of luck for the new beginning of life.
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