The death of the spouse terribly hurts. It is a big loss. The demise of the spouse takes away a big part of your soul. It hurts physically and psychologically as well. You feel helpless when you are besieged by the unbearable pain and there is no way out. Sometimes you try to escape, but the memories never let you do this. There is nothing in this world which can alleviate your pain even for a few moments.
Your family and friends are always there to help you. Even in the presence of people who care about you, the loneliness does not leave your side.
Life after spouse loss is suddenly, drastically and completely changed. The time can heal any wound, but in this grieving situation, the clock seems to be running slow. This grief often causes trouble in sleeping, less interest in food, lack of concentration and problem in making decisions.
However, you need to strengthen yourself to triumph over this irreparable loss especially if you are having kids. Admittedly, this is difficult, but not impossible. People living around you are always ready to help you. But first of all, you need your help. Face it and accept it. Take care of your life and care about your family and friends. Talk to your friends, cry, share your feelings and read the stories of others going through the same pain. Pathfinder Digital Magazine is an ultimate guide for Widow’s/widower’s journey. If you need a source of motivation, inspiration and strength, visit Pathfinder now!